Finger Lakes Weddings

A reception that is paced, not just played.

A great wedding isn’t loud. It’s intentional. From the moment your ceremony begins to the last song of the night, every musical decision is made with one goal: your celebration should feel natural, emotionally right, and entirely yours.

Check Your Date Most weddings I work invest $4,000–$5,500
Every Phase of Your Day

Three rooms.
Three different jobs.

A ceremony, a cocktail hour, and a reception ask for completely different things from the person running them. Most of the difference is in what you never have to think about.

01

Ceremony

The least margin for error of any part of the day. I coordinate directly with your officiant, manage wireless microphone levels in real time, and cue every processional and recessional with precision. Your guests hear every word.

02

Cocktail Hour

Sets the tone for the reception before most guests realize it. Warm, conversational music at a volume where your people can actually talk, while the atmosphere builds toward the celebration ahead.

03

Reception

Where the night lives. The floor is read in real time and the energy moves through intentional musical progression. A dance floor stays full because the pacing was right, not because the volume was loud.

Investment

Most weddings invest between $4,000 and $5,500.

Every wedding is quoted on its own timeline, venue, and hours. Planning sessions and the full MC role are included in every package. Ceremony sound and lighting are quoted alongside it so you can see what each one adds.

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The Music

Built from scratch, every time.

I mix across decades and genres with intention, reading the room in real time so every transition feels seamless and emotionally right. The music serves your celebration. Not the other way around.

Classic Romance

Timeless songs for your most meaningful moments. A warm, elegant blend crafted for first dances, parent dances, and cocktail hours.

Featured Artists
Frank Sinatra | Etta James | Nat King Cole | Whitney Houston

Dance Floor Anthems

Top 40, dance-pop, remixes, and high-tempo favorites mixed with intention to lift the room and keep the energy building naturally through the night.

Featured Artists
Dua Lipa | Justin Timberlake | Lizzo | Pitbull

Modern Energy

High-energy house, EDM, and remix-driven sets designed to keep the floor packed. Mixed with care so the energy feels earned, not forced.

Featured Artists
Avicii | David Guetta | Kygo | Zedd

Global Rhythms & Cultural Roots

Latin, Afrobeat, Bollywood, K-Pop, Caribbean, Mediterranean, and beyond. Your cultural soundtrack blended naturally into the full arc of the night.

Featured Artists
Bad Bunny | Burna Boy | Shakira | Wizkid
DJ Steven Share dual-booth setup at an elegant wedding reception venue Full dance floor at a wedding reception
The Process

What working with me looks like

One of the most common questions couples have is not about the music. It is about the process. Here is how it works from first conversation to last dance.

01

The Consultation

A relaxed conversation about your day, your vision, and the moments that matter most to you. No sales pressure. No templates. I want to understand your celebration before I make any recommendations.

02

The Planning

You get access to a planning tool for organizing your music preferences, timeline, and event details at your own pace, plus three planning sessions: setting the tool up, the full planning session a few months out, and a final check-in the week of. Nothing is left to chance.

03

The Coordination

In the weeks before your wedding I make sure all vendor and venue information is in order and the day-of timeline is clear. Connect me with your planner or venue and they hear from me directly rather than through you.

04

The Day

You enjoy your wedding. If something shifts on the timeline or needs adjusting in real time, it is handled quietly and correctly without pulling you into a decision.

What Couples Say
“Once the wedding came around, Steven put in hours of attention to detail to make sure our ceremony and reception were executed flawlessly.”
Jon and Shelby · Elmira Country Club
“Between family weddings, friends and just observing I have probably been to 350+. No joke, DJ Steve is a top 3 DJ in my experience.”
Rob Chudy · Wedding guest
“A different structure to the reception (no traditional first dance, parent dances, announcements etc) and lots of random requests that he happily made work for us.”
Leah Krawiec · Thousand Islands Club
“Everybody complimented the playlist, which he helped plan out perfectly, while building in some space to read the room and play the kind of songs the room was ready for at any given moment.”
Gregory Tumbarello · Google Review
“Thanks for making our wedding so great. We think back and talk about our wedding daily, and always smile when we do. You were a huge part of that.”
Mike and Shallamar · The Homestead at Whitetail Valley
“Steven struck the perfect balance between respecting our wishes for song choices and reading the room to know exactly what the crowd needed. It was clear he was personally invested in our event.”
Marissa McMahon · Google Review
“From our grand entrance to the very last song of the night, they created an incredible atmosphere that kept everyone smiling, celebrating, and on the dance floor.”
Abby Webster · Google Review
“Thank you so much for such love, care, attention, energy, and effort for our wedding. Wow.”
Tom and Linnea · Silver Queen Farm

Frequently asked

How far in advance should I book?

Wedding dates fill quickly, particularly in the spring and fall. Booking twelve to eighteen months in advance is recommended for peak season dates. If your date is sooner, reach out, and I will let you know what is available.

Do you take song requests?

Yes, within reason. Before your wedding, you will have the opportunity to share a do-not-play list and any must-have songs, both of which I honor without exception. On the night itself, guest requests are evaluated against the energy and flow of the floor at that moment. A request that fits the room gets played. A request that would disrupt the floor or derail the emotional arc of the night gets held or redirected. Your preferences always take priority.

Can you edit or shorten a song for us?

Yes. Shortening a first dance, starting at the chorus, running one track into the next, cutting a long intro out of an entrance song. That gets decided in the planning session and the work happens before your day. Not every idea comes together in a way that sounds good, though, and when one will not, I will tell you rather than hand you something that almost works.

What does the planning process look like?

After booking, you will receive access to a planning tool that lets you organize your music preferences, timeline, and event details at your own pace. We also schedule three planning sessions before your wedding: setting up the tool, a full two hour session a few months out, and a final check-in the week of. With the intro call before you book, that is four conversations and at least four hours.

Do you provide lighting?

Every wedding includes the booth, professional audio, and lit totems carrying moving heads. Beyond that there are two additions and they do different jobs. Uplighting places fixtures around the room to wash the walls with color, which makes a space look considered. The lighting upgrade is aimed at the dance floor itself so you can see the people on it, which matters most at venues that go dark once the sun does. Each is $400, and they are independent of each other.

Do you offer a photo booth?

Yes. Photo booths are supplied and quoted through Washburn Entertainment, and since your booking already runs through them, adding one is part of the same conversation rather than a second arrangement. Two of the booths come with a backdrop.

Can you put sound outside as well as inside?

Yes, and there is no charge for it. A speaker in a courtyard, on a patio or out by a games area carries what is happening inside, so the guests who wanted air are still at your wedding rather than at a quieter one twenty feet away. It also means they hear the announcement that brings everyone back in for a toast or a first dance. Worth raising when we plan, because it is a decision about where your guests will be rather than about equipment.

What happens if there is an emergency and you cannot make it?

In the unlikely event of a true emergency, I maintain relationships within the professional DJ community and would work to secure a qualified replacement at the same standard. This has never happened, but it is a fair question and you deserve a straight answer.

Who am I actually booking?

Me. I am the DJ who plans your wedding and the one in the room on the day: the intro call, the planning sessions, the timeline and the night itself are all mine. For weddings and corporate events my booking partner, Washburn Entertainment, handles the paperwork: the contract is with them, your payments go to them, and I am named in it as your DJ. They also supply the photo booths. Everything else is mine, including the equipment and my own insurance, with certificates sent to your venue on request.

Do you work with my planner and venue?

Yes. Connect us and we sort it out between us, usually by email, so it does not come back through you. If your planner would rather talk it through on a call, I am glad to. And if none of that happens in advance, the day runs anyway: I arrive two and a half to three hours early and I have run enough weddings to handle the coordination on site.

Can you handle multicultural or bilingual weddings?

Yes. I have experience programming music across a wide range of cultural traditions and can blend multiple musical identities into a cohesive arc for the night. If your celebration includes specific cultural music, share that during our consultation and I will make sure it is represented with care. Please note that my MC work is conducted in English.

Are you available for destination weddings?

Yes, and actively looking for them. I am based in the Finger Lakes and travel for weddings well outside it. Travel is worked out with your quote rather than set by a radius, so tell me where the wedding is and I will give you a number that includes getting there.

Check your date.

Five fields and two optional ones. I read every one myself and reply with availability and a real number.

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